Values in Romantic Relationships

There are substantive theoretical questions about whether personal values affect romantic relationship functioning. The current research tested the association between personal values and romantic relationship quality, while considering potential mediating mechanisms related to pro-relational attitudes, communal strength, intrinsic relationship motivation, and entitlement. Across five studies using different measures of value priorities, we found that the endorsement of self-transcendence values (i.e., benevolence, universalism) was related to higher romantic relationship quality. The findings provided support for the mediating roles of pro-relational attitudes, communal strength, and intrinsic relationship motivation. Lastly, a dyadic analysis in our fifth study showed that self-transcendence values mostly influence a person’s own relationship quality, but not that of their partner. These findings provide the first evidence that personal values are important variables in romantic relationship functioning, while helping to map the mechanisms through which this role occurs.